To the Research….

February 22, 2010 jnjmommy

As we all know it isn’t rocket science to figure out how different men and women are from each other. So as I had promised here is some research I have done to make everyone understand how different we really are.

First of ,MEN, stop blaming us for being emotional because of our periods or “PMS”. It’s the size of our limbic system! Apparently a woman’s limbic system is much deeper then a man’s. Meaning we are more emotional and more in touch with our feelings. And as you can tell we express them more. To couples every where, to keep your sanity take some B vitamins everyday. (Especially women) Those tend to be a mood booster!

Now I have that out of the way I want to write why I started doing this research in the first place. There has been a thousand questions running around in my head about men.  One being how can a guy have sex with with one woman but be crazy in love with another. This one is simple. Because sex and love are NOT the same thing! They have absolutely nothing to do with each other. Sex is purely to reproduce. That is ALL it is scientifically for. Sex was simple before people started making it more about morals.

Another question is why do men feel the need to cheat? Well here are some known reasons

1. Wife let herself go.Does that mean a man expects a woman to look her best EVERY SINGLE DAY? No! It means he wants you to be healthy. And honestly wouldn’t you want that for your self? (Though it is hypocritical of a man to ask that of a wife and not pay her the same respect. You better be working on a 6 pack if your asking your wife to get some abs herself)

2. She is nagging him. Women you know men hate this. Why continue to do it? Nagging doesn’t work. Find another approach.

3. The thrill. This one completely blows my mind. I understood this concept when I was a teenager when I enjoyed knowing I could go out and get caught or not. The second I turned 18 and I had no legal curfew it wasn’t as exciting! This is different to me considering husbands are not teenagers ( most situations anyways)

4.Wife didn’t give in. Men have it in their heads that if their wife won’t give them sex there is another woman who will. Which is 100 percent true!

And finally 5-7 are the reasons why I started the research in the first place.

5. Men are hunters. This is dated back to cave men. The need that is encoded into their DNA. Men feeling like they have to continuously hunt for women.

6.Biology. It is a biological nature for a man to be with as many females as possible. Once you have seen a woman naked numerous times the thrill wears down. It doesn’t matter how hot she is. Men feel the need to experience a different type. But what keeps them from doing this is the maturity of knowing love is more important then experiencing different women.

Just because I did this research does NOT mean I agree with affairs. I don’t. I believe people do have self control. But to have self control you had to be provoked in the first place. I just wanted people to think about it and try and see a different point of view.


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